Category Archives: #blackgirlhealing

I love My family, and am so grateful for my smother.

I’m the youngest of 3. In the photo Mom holds me in her arms. My parents were a team. Daddy worked and went to night school to get his degree when he retired from the military. Ma managed the house … Continue reading

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The Courage to Walk Away

(For clarity on identity, I am a cis- gendered straight woman. In this blog when I refer to “women” I’m referring to cis-gendered straight women dealing with cis-gendered straight men) I’m not a fan of reality TV and don’t watch … Continue reading

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I am not your social justice Mammy.

  About 4 years ago, after an experience at a training I was assisting a former liberal white female friend who was leading a training (where I was one of perhaps 3 Black Women out of the hundreds of women … Continue reading

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Black Women in Service? Well first…

I am a single child free single woman, I live in NY city and there are days where the only men who speak to me…are asking me for money. Continue reading

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